Friday, November 1, 2024

Handmaids No More!


Vote for the candidates who will protect and give agency to the women you love and for the girls who will be women one day. Our lives depend on it. In other words, not Republicans.

  

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Monday, October 14, 2024

Kisses are a Better Fate Than Wisdom

It's the birthday of E. E. Cummings today. I wouldn't normally know that, but The Writer's Almanac for today said so. The first four lines of one of his poems were shared, and I found them so moving, so descriptive of my marriage, that I wanted to read the poem in its entirety. I have shared it below. When I realized my husband cared more about whether my grammar was correct than what I was attempting to express, I knew something was very wrong.


[since feeling is first]


since feeling is first

who pays any attention

to the syntax of things

will never wholly kiss you;


wholly to be a fool

while Spring is in the world


my blood approves,

and kisses are a better fate

than wisdom

lady I swear by all flowers. Don't cry

--the best gesture of my brain is less than

your eyelids' flutter which says


we are for each other: then

laugh, leaning back in my arms

for life's not a paragraph


And death i think is no parenthesis