If a particular behavior is deplorable in a man, it is equally deplorable when a woman engages in the same actions. Awareness of how reprehensible it is and doing it anyway is worse. When the awareness of how reprehensible it is arises from the fact that you have had that very thing done to you is doubly worse. The score is not evened up, the hatchet is buried that much deeper. Let's always go high when they go low, no matter who the us and them happen to be. And hope that this action brings us all to a higher level of humanity and grace. Shit begets shit. Cast pearls instead.